Maria Montessori says this about a child’s independence:
“The child’s first instinct is to carry out actions by himself, without anyone helping him, and his first conscious bid for independence is made when he defends himself against those who try to do the action for him.”
“I CAN DO IT MYSELF!”
How many times have we heard these words? Usually we hear them during one of those frantic moments when we need to be somewhere quickly (such as when we are getting our child ready for school). As teachers, parents and caregivers we need to see that the child’s need for independence does not have a set time or schedule. So, we should always be prepared for these words.
Here are a few suggestions to help during this wonderful stage when getting ready for school. First, purchase easy on and off clothing. Second, pick out clothes the night before. Third, serve breakfast with specific items each morning (for example, a special bowl and cup for cereal and juice).
Doing these steps allows your child not only to do these things himself, but it enables him to know what will happen next and gives him some control. This is a great step toward independence.
Enjoy every moment!
